Food for thought: getting rid of people who bring garbage in to your life! It ani’t nothing to cut that . . . off

Wise words from Mr. Monteasymoore aka Antoine Moore/Lewis on Overcoming negative situations:

Overcoming negative ideas by Dan Lier:

Overcoming negative people by Jean-Pierre De Villiers:

How to not take on other people’s negative vibe:

These are some of the many video out there that bring home a powerful and endearing message:
Getting of negative people, situations, thoughts and anything that can bring you down in life, do not get me wrong life is a movie so there will always be drama and things that an bring negativity but something we can control or get rid of. Invest in your self and in your value by adding people and things that can bring you up not down, there is power in our actions. People who are negative all the time or bring people down with them will never do you any good the same goes for thought and negative actions , it will never do you any good. It can rub off on you and make you in to that negativity in some one else’s life.

I had encounter negative people throughout my life and had to let them go and I honestly been happier and do not regret it on bit, that includes changing negative habits as well. I had this one friend who would always put me down saying that my dreams are invalid and that I am not good enough. This friend would make me doubt my dream and eventually that become a ad habit for me and made me unhappy and was making me negative towards people and I hate it until I realize that that former friend is really a miserable person and you know that misery loves company.

Food for thought: Take care of yourself, damn it!

I  am taking a break from stories today to write a special post today.

The real news of the day is I recently lost my job,

It was a retail job   but it was so physically demanding, you have to fix clothes, I would touch and deal with dirty clothing, sharp tagging needles and trash not to mention., process new & old get rid of old ones. In a  way neglect your own body  and at some points your  sanity.  I was becoming unhealthy.

At first I was devastated because I was thinking what am I going to do now? What is my plan B? How do I survive at this point?

After working prematurely for a month and 2 weeks I realized that this job what really what I did not want to do for the rest of my life. Working for some one else was not more fulfilling then working for myself, towards my own dream.


It was time to take care of my self, there’s a different between being self-fish and self-less.


Checkout these additional words of wisdom from:

Actress Jada Pinkett-Smith’s round table:



counselor  Kristen Marie




If you do not make your your complete how could you make someone complete, you need to make sure that you are doing well too. We need to get our self a tune-up it’s now being weak, it’s building your self to become a stronger and better you.

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Rapper Fat Joe Drops A Lot Of Weight And Models At NYFW [PICS]

Originally posted on The Urban Daily:

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When rapper Fat Joe attended New York Fashion Week last week something was  definitely missing. We’re going to go out on a limb and say what was missing was the abundance of weight that we are used to seeing him with!

A very slimmed down Joe not only showed up to the fashion show in Harlem, he walked the runway!

Take a look at the inspirational spitter in the pics from Harlem’s Fashion Row 7th Annual Fashion Show And Style Awards below!

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Get em Joe! Hopefully, he will tell everyone how he managed to drop the weight! But until then, we’ll just have to be content with admiring him!

Salute sir!


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RHOA Drama: Phaedra Parks To Divorce Her Imprisoned Hubby Apollo Nida

RHOA’s Apollo Nida Turns Himself In To Kentucky Prison [VIDEO]

But…What’s Going On “Behind” Nicki Minaj? [PICS]

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‘Orange Is The New Black’ Writer Divorces Husband + Begins Dating Samira Wiley (aka Poussey)

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Working on “Orange Is The New Black” brought one writer to the realization that she is a lesbian, and she’s begun dating a star of the show.

Who says you can’t find love on the job?!

Lauren Morelli recalled in a piece she wrote for that she’d spent months writing about the relationship between “OITNB” main character Piper Chapman and her ex Alex Vause helped her to come to terms with the fact that she has a sexual preference for women. The revelation came at a particularly inconvenient time because she had just married a man just a few months prior to discovering her actual sexuality.

“I was nervous about the first love scene I’d written for Alex and Piper,” Lauren wrote in her confessional. “I’d loved writing it, loved watching a tenderness emerge in their relationship where passion always seemed to be the ruling principle, but by that time…

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A Comprehensive History Of The Ray J, Princess Love & Teairra Mari Love Triangle

Originally posted on The Urban Daily:

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If you doubted that the “Love & Hip Hop” franchise could deliver more ratchery, the supertrailer they just released may have proved you wrong.

The four-minute video promises a number of highlights and familiar faces in the new season, but among the most talked about is the cat fight between Ray J‘s current girlfriend, Princess Love, and his ex, Teairra Mari, as well as Teairra’s angry physical attack on Ray J after he dumps out a box of her clothes onto the floor. Clearly, there is somewhat of a ratchet love triangle occurring here, but the big question still stands–how did they even get to this point?

Who is Princess Love?

Where did this girl come from? The answer: Floyd Mayweather. Princess Love is a former Las Vegas stripper who was dating Floyd Mayweather back in 2013 when she was exposed for cheating on him with Ray J. For some…

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Iggy Azalea’s Ex Claims She Was Legal & “Fully Aware” During Sex Tape Session (DETAILS)

Originally posted on Global Grind:

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According to TMZ, Iggy most recently responded to the sex tape by letting Vivid Ent. know that she’ll sue if the company if it uses her name in any way. The site reports:

Iggy Azalea’s lawyers are throwing the kitchen sink at a major porn company … now claiming Vivid will get it’s dirty corporate ass sued if it dares to market her alleged sex tape … because the name “Iggy” can only be used by Iggy.

And continues:

“Now Iggy’s lawyers have fired off a letter to Vivid — obtained By TMZ — in which they say the name “Iggy” is gold … protected by U.S. Trademark.”

As far as how Vivid feels about it all, TMZ reports:” Vivid is unimpressed, restating it’s desire to market the tape.” We will keep you updated as new details surface.

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Ex-Baltimore Raven Ray Rice To Appeal Indefinite Suspension From NFL (DETAILS)

Originally posted on Global Grind:

Baltimore Ravens v Dallas CowboysRay Rice, the ex-Baltimore Ravens running back whose contract was terminated after it was revealed he punched his wife so hard he knocked her unconscious, plans to appeal his indefinite suspension from the NFL.

If you recall, Rice was let go after TMZ released a video of the star player punching Janay Palmer (now Rice) in an Atlantic City hotel elevator. The league previously handed down a lenient two-game suspension in July, after video emerged of Rice dragging her unconscious body out of the elevator.

From ESPN:

Rice must file the appeal by 11:59 p.m. ET on Tuesday — three business days after the NFL officially notified the players’ union of the suspension.

The NFLPA still has not finalized its plan on a basis for the appeal and is considering multiple ideas, sources told NFL Insider Adam Schefter.

We’ll keep you updated with the latest.

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Urban Outfitters Apologizes After Selling Blood-Stained Kent State Sweatshirt (DETAILS)

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On May 4, 1970, Ohio National Guardsmen shot and killed four college students protesting the Vietnam War.

And today in news that makes you go, “What the fuck???” Urban Outfitters apparently did not find selling a “vintage” Kent State sweatshirt splattered with blood problematic. At least not until they realized the outrage they caused (and rightfully so).

The sweatshirt was a one-of-one item being sold for $129, with the phrase, “We only have one, so get it or regret it!” written in its description.

Kent State released a statement, saying:

We take great offense to a company using our pain for their publicity and profit. This item is beyond poor taste and trivializes a loss of life that still hurts the Kent State community today.

Now it’s Urban who’s really feeling that regret because Monday morning, they released the following statement via Twitter:

Urban Outfitters sincerely apologizes for…

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Kanye West Humiliates Two Disabled Fans During Show

Originally posted on HelloBeautiful:

Kim Kardashian Sighting In ParisKanye West totally and completely humiliated two handicapped fans in front of thousands of people by demanding that they stand up.

Kanye and his diva behavior have really gotten out of hand. Earlier this week, he was rushed to the hospital for a migraine headache…because apparently taking some aspirin and a nap just wasn’t going to be enough. Now he’s taken things to a whole new level of ridiculous.

Read that first line again. Yes, The Daily Mail Australia reports that Kanye brought a recent show in Australia to a screeching halt when he realized that everyone was not on their feet. Who would ever have the audacity not to stand up? People that physically can’t do it, that’s who!

MUST READ: Kanye West Rushed To The Hospital For Headache

Yeezy stopped his show at Sydney’s Qantas Credit Union because he spotted a couple of people in their seats. He joked…

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Let It Go: ‘Atlanta Exes’ Star Monyetta Shaw Wants The Public To Forgive Ne-Yo

Originally posted on HelloBeautiful:

AG Entertainment All White AffairMonyetta Shaw believes her ex-fiance Ne-Yo has been getting a bad rap from things she’s revealed on “Atlanta Exes” and she thinks it’s time for the public to move on.

If anyone’s got a valid reason to be mad at the Ne-Yo, it is Monyetta! The VH1 star has opened up quite during her run on the “Hollywood Exes” spin-off, but nothing has been more shocking than to find out how Ne-Yo has treated her in the past. She’s sacrificed a lot for him only to be left behind (romantically speaking) before they ever got the altar.

Monyetta’s story has soured a lot of people on the crooner. She never meant to undermine him on the show; it’s just that her side of their story makes him look really bad!

“I don’t think he’s ever been seen in that light before, and no one knew that would happen,” she told

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Ne-Yo Defends Asking His Fiance To Stop Having Children [VIDEO]

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We cringed when Monyetta Shaw revealed, on “Hollywood Exes,” that she can no longer conceive children because she had her tubes burned following a mutual decision between her and then-fiance Ne-Yo. Shaw thought she and Ne-Yo would be together forever and that their family was complete after she gave birth to their second child, but now Ne-Yo has moved on and has another woman in his life–leaving Monyetta incapable of building a family with anyone else.

Ne-Yo stopped by our offices to address the controversy around the “Hollywood Exes” show and Monyetta’s confession. “Once we learned that our second child was a boy we were in the office high-fiving like ‘Yes. we’re done’,” Ne-Yo said. “The doctor hit us with the option.”

Since the episode aired, Ne-Yo’s had to defend himself against criticism. ” I’ve made my apologies to the people I feel I wronged,”…

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